Some of you may know that I was going to have an interview with the Minnesota Atheist’s “Atheists Talk” Radio today (29th May 2011). Well, it seemed to go pretty well, and Mike Haubrich has already got a podcast up of the interview — within minutes! – which you can listen to if you like. (I’ve plugged it in at the bottom.) You may not find it particularly interesting, but at least you’ll know what I sound like! Just a couple of things. I think I say at one point in the interview that Elizabeth died on June 7. I’m not sure why I said that, because I know as well as anything that it was June 8th, 2007 — which I also say! (This just goes to show, by the way, how easy it is for messages in transmission to be varied, even by those who were there! This is a good lesson to learn, especially when you consider the claims that biblical scholars often make for the reliability of the gospel narratives.) The other thing was when Mike called me an ‘Anglican oriented Catholic’, whereas the truth was that I had been an Anglo-Catholic, that is, a Catholic Anglican, a product, at some remove, of the 19th century Oxford Movement, started by Newman and others at Oxford who came to believe, as the Wikipedia article says, that “the Anglican Church [was] one of three branches of the Catholic Church.” Not that this weighs with me now, or is in any way particularly important now that I have no relationship with the church, but it’s just as well to get it right.
Amongst the things that I should have liked to get to — the hour fairly flew by, and it was over before I knew it — was how things turned out when I returned from Switzerland, because that brought me face to face with the ugly forces of religion. Being pretty naïve where legalities are concerned, it never occurred to me (or to Elizabeth) that the law would have anything to say about someone who accompanied his wife to Switzerland, where she had chosen to die. Although Elizabeth did think, perhaps strangely, that someone might try to stop us, and so she was careful not to tell anyone when we were leaving or from which place. (We drove to Montreal and then went direct to Zurich by Swissair.) But I think, had Elizabeth known that the law would take an interest on my return, she might not have chosen this option, because she was very concerned that I not be implicated in anything concerning her death. So, in that sense, I’m glad we didn’t think of it, because she had the peaceful death that she sought, lying in my arms, and no harm came of it in the end. And to tell the truth, it was only Elizabeth I cared for, that she should have the peace she sought. (I know, it’s a bit of contradiction, equating death with peace, but it’s not when you’re suffering.)
However, when I returned from Switzerland, it wasn’t long before the news media, via the so-called “pro-life” brigade, and through them, the police, were on my doorstep, sometimes figuratively, but once actually camped out, waiting for me to come home. Elizabeth had written her own obituary, which I then edited for her, and she had thanked Dignitas and Switzerland for their kindness and generosity, and the so-called “Euthanasia Prevention Coalition” — run by the aptly named Alex Schadenburg (compare Schadenfreude) out of London, Ontario — which is one of the Roman Catholic hydra’s many heads, though the connexion is not advertised — got in touch with the RCMP (Royal Canadian Mounted Police – for those of you who don’t know), and they got in touch with me. They must have scouts across the country (the EPC), since the obituary was only published in the local Halifax newspaper. I was interviewed by the police in some detail on Thursday, 28th June 2007, as I recall, and a few days after that I had a visit from a constable from the Annapolis Valley Major Crimes Unit who told me that no charges would be laid. I must say that I found the RCMP to be politeness and kindness personified, very professional, but very sensitive and compassionate too, which is more than I can say for Christian organisations. Before that I was asked for several interviews on TV and radio. It was rather a flurry of attention for a few days, with satellite trucks parked out in front of the house, and reporters and cameramen trooping back and forth to the house. It was big news for a news cycle, and I still get calls when the question comes up, two or three in the last few months alone. These things are obviously filed and remembered.
So, here is the podcast from the Minnesota Atheists. It was a pleasure speaking with Mike Haubrich. What a remarkable programme they put on, and they need your support, so help them if you can. Listening to it I realise that I have a tendency to mumble, I’m afraid, so you’ll be challenged from time to time to know what I said, but I think you can make out most of it.
Minnesota Atheists
While the following will not tell you about what happened when I returned to Canada, it does tell of my experiences with Elizabeth at Dignitas, on 8th June 2007, when she died. It is a an audio clip from an interview which I did with CBC Radio’s “As it Happens” programme on the 29th June 2007, three weeks after Elizabeth died. As I say, I was swarmed by the media for a few days after Elizabeth’s memorial service on the 23rd June, and this was the only interview that I could find for download at the time.
As It Happens
I’m going to listen to them both now, so it’ll be at least that amount of time before I have anything useful to say (if that is ever true), if not longer since I prefer to think on things for a while.
Whatever this winds up looking like in the end, all I can say is that it is important, exceptionally important, that a person like yourself is in the public eye on this topic. You aren’t the kind of loon the media look for (you’re a different kind of loon!); I’ve long said that here in the states, the street interviewers must bribe with cheeseburgers the absolute dumbest people possible to find on the street. Same is true of our politicians (and often even the media!)
Anyway, I admire the courage you have to let what should be a personal, private decision among your late wife, you and her doctors be available to the public. I can only hope that harassment you’ve received serves some useful purpose in the long run. It is sickening that some whackjob can even be taken seriously when he demands access to your private affairs because his life is so pathetic he can’t stand to bear it without ruining yours.
Thank you; thank you, Eric.
*disappears to listen and think*
Ok. All I can say is that it was very moving. Thank you for sharing.
I like to think that our extraordinary guests make the programme, Eric. Thank you again.
Thanks for sharing your story. The intervention of Euthanasia Prevention Coalition is yet another instance of religion poisoning people’s lives, in this case because they can’t get to the dead.
I’m glad you mentioned that there were cases before the Supreme Court and that’s how much of our law comes into being. I have high hopes that the ability choose to end our lives will come about the same way.
Hooray, Minnesota Atheists. Great of you to share your story with nonbelievers in our proud state, Eric.
““Euthanasia Prevention Coalition” — run by the aptly named Alex Schadenburg (compare Schadenfreude) ‘
You’ve touched on something here that I have always wondered about. When I was a small child in Catholic school I was ‘getting the strap’ as we called it for the sin of disobedience. I clearly remember looking up through my tears (it hurt a lot) and seeing the look on the face of the good Sister Mary Martyr or whatever it was. It was the same look that one of my friends would get when he took a hammer to the beetles he collected.
At what point in the church’s history did it get hijacked by men who turned sadomasochism into a holy fetish?
Anyway, it cured me of religion. If Sister Mary is a bride of christ then there is no christ.
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